Things are not always what they seem to be.
Our whole outlook on life is shaped by our experiences and how we have been raised.
When we look out on the world we do not see it exactly the same as everyone else – or perhaps anyone else!
It does make communication quite difficult as one person makes what they perceive to be a witty comment – while you feel that you have been insulted and want to perhaps physically punish them!
It is a small wonder that we can communicate at all – your childhood experiences and mine are so different.
How it affects us
We have learned about loss in our lives – and maybe only discovered one or two ways of dealing with any kind of loss – perhaps by running away, or turning to people who we think are strong to protect us ( but they turn out to be control freaks! ).
Increasing our self understanding helps us to become more aware of how we are affected – and by working with us we will help you discover more of yourself so that you can choose to act differently, rather than in the old programmed way that got all the wrong results but which we still continue to do.
Standing back ask one simple question – “Just what is going on here ??” It begins to give you a different perspective.
One thing is for sure – if you go on doing what you have always done you will always get the same result”